My front door mat has a butterfly on it and many of my friends tell me of great stories about butterflies that appear after the passing of a loved one. Watch grow and be as graceful and aware as the butterfly – be in its presence as it seemingly never is in a hurry but just Is in the Present How we have all lost this ability that we must try so hard to bring back into life – no one is responsible for your happiness but you as we crave love and bonding and arms but to receive is to know we deserve and have warmth to return. Be as a butterfly and want for nothing and watch as it softly comes and lands on your shoulders when you least expect it.